See that girl in the picture? That's not me. Confidence on a set of wheels? Nope. Finesse and grace? Nuh uh.So, what was I doing last Saturday at a rink reminiscent of the one I used to frequent in junior high? It had the disco ball, the lights, a snack bar (code name for the same greasy, sugary junk food we ate in seventh grade), and blaring rock music. As usual, all the "cool" kids (i.e. people who could glide effortlessly around the floor and do tricks) dominated the floor. And as usual, I hung back to watch and admire from afar. One skater in particular amazed me.
He was perfectly at ease and wore a look of sublime satisfaction on his face. Each time he caught my eye, his smile deepened. He beckoned me to skate with him. On wobbly legs, I made my way toward his outstretched arm. The cutest boy on the rink in junior high certainly never noticed me, I thought. But I was glad that it was the case on this day.
Okay, he's more like handsome and actually a man, rather than a boy. And, I'm fortunate to say, my husband. (But that's beside the point!)
With my sweaty palm in his hand, I was soon circling the floor, relishing the breeze from the air conditioning vent. "Slower! A little slower!" I called out. He gave a good natured chuckle, smiling all the way around.
Eventually, I got the hang of it. A little. Enough to skate on my own. It seems I had forgotten more than I remembered.
He let go slowly. I managed to make my way around the circle enough times to be respectable, though I do have a huge bruise on my knee from a fall.
Later, as I rested on the bench, he came to sit beside me. "Last song," he said. "Shall we?"
I grabbed his proffered hand and set out for the floor again. We'd barely begun the first corner when I found myself suddenly on the floor. If not for his gentle concern, I would have probably given up and headed back to the bench. In spite of myself, I laughed and we had our last skate together before packing up and heading home.
I couldn't help but thinking how very much like God he was. (Now, mind you--spouses married for six years are well aware of each others' faults. I do not hold him as a deity. However, this is one of the many examples of the fruits of the spirit he exhibits).
God coaxes us out of our comfort zones (i.e. the padded pew) from time to time. Not because He needs us, but because we need Him. We try new things--new ministries, new relationships--and sometimes we fall. He isn't surprised by that. Even though we smart for some time afterward--like my knee even today, for example--He doesn't think of us as a failure. As my husband was just happy to be skating and that I joined him, so is God when He invites us on a grand adventure. We will fail sometimes, and He will be gentle and kind. The next time we try, we'll be better at it. Which is a good thing, because now that my husband has found such an awesome skating rink he says we're going back soon!
So, don't be afraid to lace up those skates, or dig out that rappelling gear, or whatever. And don't be afraid to try something new for God, either. The possibilities are endless. Homeless ministries, children's choir director, nursing home and infirm visits, submitting articles ... possibilities for grand adventures are limitless!



